My sweet source of diabetes ….

No prize money for guessing that Diabetes is caused by excessive sweetness and “sweet” is the taste which is synonym to happiness. So, does it worth dying with a disease caused by happiness , I would say yes, happiness brings “life” to a living dead body, sweetness adds equally pleasant effect in life like adding sound to the early age mute movies.I would personally like to die happy/diabetic then to live dry and sour. Every one got their own source of sweetness in life and mine is my family and friends… I am lucky to have wonderful parents and companioned by awesome friends. What more one can ask from GOD? But looks like the almighty got a sale these days and I managed to pick up something invaluable from God’s disposal. I have got a huge source of sweetness, its sugar indeed. It’s a friend whom I met about 96 hr before I wrote this. She is so live and happy in her own self that I have laughed amounting years with her in these 96 hours…. All this said here onwards I will call her “sugar sweet”. She is queen of giggling, can’t say a word without laughing , so easy going and soothing personality that a few words exchanged with her will make your day… All I can say is I am happy happy happy …….

बालगीत

- बढ़े चलो

वीर तुम बढ़े चलो
धीर तुम बढ़े चलो
साथ में ध्वजा रहे
बाल दल सजा रहे
ध्वज कभी झुके नहीं
दल कभी रुके नहीं।
सामने पहाड़ हो
सिंह की दहाड़ हो
तुम निडर,हटो नहीं
तुम निडर,डटो नहीं
वीर तुम बढ़े चलो
धीर तुम बढ़े चलो
प्रात हो कि रात हो
संग हो न साथ हो
सूर्य से बढ़े चलो
चन्द्र से बढ़े चलो
वीर तुम बढ़े चलो
धीर तुम बढ़े चलो

-द्वारिकाप्रसाद माहेश्वरी
(1916 - -1998)

Male thinking in 2007

Atrociously ridiculous cheap thinking people are still around and to your surprise they pretend themselves as the most modern and advanced creatures on this earth, they can fiddle around with all kinds of gadgets from computer games to electronic masculinity machines…. They are working in world’s top 10 fortune 500 companies…..But you cannot imagine how absurd and bizarre thinking they have about the female sex, they still have the orthodox misconception that female is a weaker sex…and even though it’s not, it is better to keep the misconception live for male benefits.

Coming from an open minded family (I am proud of it), I have always seen female is given equal or more respect then males in the family and to me the entire world was like that only until I had a discussion with two married guys who work for great companies and unfortunately are known to me. I was under a misconception that gender discrimination was an ancient topic and no longer exist on this earth but it’s there and prevalent…

Some lines quoted by them –

“Male won’t develop until they go out and females will be ruined if they will go out”

“Woman don’t have decision power”

“Males will always dominate in the family and they should try to keep strict controls on females”

Bullshit ….I had no words to argue with these guys but I feel bad that I know these conservative people…

My advice to these guys, you are underestimating the power of woman and benefits of equal treatment … You better change your thinking otherwise your acceptability in modern social circle will be in jeopardy.

I am sure there are only couple of such people and majority still thinks and feel that women in no respect lesser then men and should be given equal or more respect then their conterparts...

Sith philosophy

Fear leads to anger.
Anger leads to hate.
Hatred leads to power.
Power leads to victory.
Let your anger flow through you.
Your hate will make you strong.
True power is only achieved through testing the limits of one's anger, passing through unscathed.
Rage channeled through anger is unstoppable.
The dark side of the Force offers unimaginable power.
The dark side is stronger than the light.
The weak deserve their fate.
–tenets of Sith philosophy

Pilfering , not bad always ….

Elders used to say it’s bad , it’s bad but I guess not that bad … stealing something is not bad if it can do good to someone …. I have started stealing already and I am not feeling bad... I am gonna take out some pages from the Book “Chicken soup for the soul” and add it to my blog so it will be with me forever… :-).

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The rules for being human

You will receive a body – You may like it or hate it, but it will be your for the entire period of this time around.

You will learn lessons – You are enrolled in a full time information school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

There are no mistakes, only lessons – Growth is the process of trial and error: Experimentation. The failed experiments are as much the part of the process as the experiment that ultimately works.

A lesson is repeated until learned – A lesson will be presented to you in many forms until you have leaned it. When you have leaned it, you can then go on to next lesson.

Learning lessons does not end – There is no part of life that does not contain it’s lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.

“There” is no better than “here” – When your there has become here, you will simply obtain another “there”, that will again look better then “here”.

Others are merely mirrors of you. – You cannon love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.

What you make of your life is up to you. – You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

Your answers lie inside you. – The answers to life’s questions lie inside you. All you need is to do look, listen and trust.

You will forget all this. 

PS - All the content on this page is for personal use.

Girls – The deadliest and the most lethal creation of the GOD, let’s talk about them :-)

You all must be thinking, what happened to ramu, he was kinda fine when he left...“Now he is writing about girls…”

Don’t worry guys, I know it will be difficult but I am sure it will be complete with inputs from all of you boyz …. After-all this is probably among the most discussed topics between boys, no matter if they are bachelors or married (Bhatti and anurag you guys are listening haan ;-)). To boyz this is probably the most imperative thing sometimes even more important then a “network outage” :-D, he he….Their lunch timings will always be tuned enough to match the time when there will be maximum girls in the food court just to get maximum doze of Vitamin “G” which is considered good for eyes :-D…They know that their Bus is not gonna leave till 6:00 but they will still be on the ramp at 5:30 sharp just to check out girls from all the buses before theirs. (Bhatti you are listening right ;-) )

I was chatting with viru the other day and he tossed this idea to write about gals and I thought it’s not a bad idea…actually since the time I have moved, one of the most asked question to me is “how am I finding the girls here” ..:D so I will try answering that question here…

Declaration - Whatever I will be writing here is just my personal opinion and others may not agree with my opinion, which is absolutely fine and please feel free to express your opinion :-)

There are three types of girls (by ethnicity) here …Chinese looking, malays and Indians. In my personal opinion chinks are pretty cool, yeah typical asian look, very small eyes, a tiny nose and not much of the expressions on the face…. All the faces look so similar that if you go out with one in the party you may end up coming back with someone else, not sure how people here remember their wife’s face.. Just kidding …. But Indian girls envy them with the fact that they have the most beautiful and shining skin in this world, you actually can’t guess the age of a woman here…One of the girl who works with me from the face she looks like 23 years but actually is 32 years … that kinda explains it … These chinks are very reserved girls and hard to crack :-)
Now the second type Malays… very interesting girls they are mixed girls, dark complexion but very beautiful eyes, nice glowing skin and sharp face sculpture… I appreciate them a lot … these girls are more vocal and friendly..

Indian girls in Singapore are not very exciting, trust me …. They are not…. We have very nice indian girls back there in India.... (Seriously very nice )...


This was kinda more less about the girls here in Singapore now let’s talk about girls in general…So here is what we think about girls in complete raw format ----

virendersj: girls are mystrious, but thats what their best part, it’s their unpredictability which is the real beauty
me: they are multi personaility as well smtimes u think they are “this” but immediatley they will be “that” ...
virendersj: u cant really say what she will like in u, really NEVER
u can be well groomed or best of dressed with best deo /perfume etc but u may end up getting the best compliment when u r really bikhre hue and rough looking
me: ha ha ha true man :-)
me: and the bests thing is that next time the same look may get her upset and she wanna see you well dressed now …. You never know man :D
virendersj: even myself hating my face at the moment but she is all flattered and that is serious she isnt joking

Now the next question I asked viru who is “She” here, he will never tell you :-D

One area of improvement for girls as per Viru and ramu –

virendersj: they shd not expect that everytime boy will approach them
virendersj: but they shd understand that some guys may take time to open up
me: and the big thing is when boy is trying to reach out to them they they shd also give some clear signals at least , u never get to know easily what the hell she thinkin abt….
virendersj: but they shd understand that some guys may take time to open up and if u encourage them (if she also like him) who knows u might end up with one of the best guy…

So guys kinda wrapping up here for the time being ….

Merlion is fun but I am missing .....

Ok, chill, I’ll be right back to Goa but now can’t hold enough to talk about “How am I feeling in this new world” ????

Speaking of this new world, it’s as exciting to me as a infant bird’s first flight… it may not be a take off in first attempt but the baby still enjoys it and try again to open up wings with better effort this time & finally up in the sky…..

This is the world where 90% of the population doesn’t understand my lingo, they don’t look like me, they are not vocal at all, they are little strict towards rules….. this is the world where you cook to eat, you re-cook the leftovers to eat again , this is the world where you won’t even get to see your neighbors, where TV doesn’t mean star plus by default , where you get in the queue to catch your bus (that too a bus without conductor)…

But Yes, this is world where things are systematic enough to leave an impression on you, when you visit a governmental deptt. they are prompt enough to tell you, how much time exactly will it take to serve your request and they complete it in time. This is a world where people don’t understand me but they are still prompt enough to help me finding out Indian stuff in the super market. It’s a place where they don’t reserve seats in the train instead they promptly request you to leave the seat for someone who requires it more then you… It’s a place where local style cooked food is so good that I never visit Indian style food stalls…(of course except Tuesday and Thursday) 

It’s a place where, colleagues don’t pay bumps on your ass if you get a new laptop  but still they are fun enough to go out for a cup of tea and look around for chicks …(guys we have a national university near by, to enjoy colorful faces   )….

All and all Singapore is a fun place but I am missing, I missing everything all I said …….